When it comes to two people uniting in marriage, few symbols are as iconic as a ring. First, many couples will declare their intent to marry through a proposal or engagement involving a jeweled ring. At the actual wedding, couples exchange metallic bands to seal their union. Then there’s the ring itself. As an unbroken circle, it symbolizes the continuity of the marriage. The open circle represents the door into a new chapter of life, and the precious metal indicates the pricelessness of true love. It’s easy to see why rings have endured when it comes to matrimony; however, not everybody sees it that way. You may have your own reasons for wanting an alternative, so consider these.
1. Impassioned Inking
Tattoos are popular with people who are into body art. As an alternative to precious metal, you and your future spouse may prefer the look and feel of ring tattoos. You can decide on a style together or come up with something that is unique and special to your partnership. Although you may experience discomfort or sensitivity, tattoos can be significantly less expensive than rings. Visit a tattoo parlor for a special pre-wedding activity.
2. Putting Down Roots
Instead of exchanging rings, consider planting a tree instead. You and your partner can shop for a sapling of a fruit- or flower-bearing tree. Plant it in the yard of your home and watch it grow and bloom over the years. Although caring for a tree will require effort on your part, it lasts for a long time, symbolizing the two of you growing together and putting down roots that go deep. Look for a tree type that does well in your neck of the woods.
3. Painting a Thousand Words
You’ve heard that a picture is worth a thousand words. How about two pictures of a thousand words (or less)? Create word art using the text from your vows. Find beautiful frames to display and hang them up in your home. Every time you and your spouse see them, you’ll be reminded of the commitment that you made to each other. This is a great idea if you know an artist, calligrapher, or interior designer to help you translate your idea into a beautiful lifelong reality.
4. Capturing the Time
Perhaps you and your partner aren’t keen on rings but you like the idea of wearing something that reminds you of your commitment. How about watches? Timepieces come in a variety of styles, sizes, and price points to suit your preferences as a couple. Buy matching watches or pieces that reflect your particular sense of style. You never have to worry about a watch getting stuck.
5. Drinking and Being Merry
A toast to a new life together with glasses of champagne or something bubbly is to be expected as part of your nuptials. Crystal wine glasses with your names are a nice alternative to exchanging rings. Have a pair crafted for your special day and make it a part of your reception. You can start an annual tradition where the two of you enjoy a glass (or two) of your favorite wine in your glasses on your anniversary. If you and your spouse aren’t into wine or want something more low-key, customized mugs are a nice option, especially if you love coffee or tea.
When you and your partner are ready to tie the knot, beyond declaring an intent to marry, everything else is up to you. From attire to the venue to the menu, it’s literally your party and you get to decide what you will and won’t do. The exchange of rings is a big moment in many weddings, but you can choose to do something different entirely.